I have this great friend, let's call her R. R is the kind of friend that you want to have in your life. She is talented, amazing and all the things that you want from a friend. She helped me out so much during the yuck of my life and has continued to call and check in on me.
Sunday R had a fever, the fever lead her to watch TV, the BYU channel in particular, where she saw a cute single guy that she thought I should meet, I think the fever made her a little delusional and that lead to an email being sent and a little stalking on facebook.
Because I like to cook and this "guy" on TV doesn't and really misses the family home cooked meal R thought let's facilitate an introduction. R found this "guy" on Facebook and sent him a message about me and threw down a few guidelines of her own. A picture of me was sent and my email address was forwarded. Now I will wait and see if he actually contacts me.
I wanted to include a few of the things that R said in her email to TV guy. She said some nice things about me and then - "IF you aren't a pervert, addicted to porn, an adulterer (formerly or presently) or a jack Mormon...and you are in fact the opposite of that...a worthy priesthood holder (that isn't a cliche, worthy is really key) with a temple recommend who is sincere, active, can hold intelligent conversations, I'd love to set the two of you up."
That's all, humor a girl with the flu.
R
I love this and it's great to blog about. I love my friends looking out for me who know the kind of guy that I want and need in my life, and maybe something fun will happen. Keep 'em coming ladies. Thanks, R! You are the best.
And to my friend A (you know who you are) did you find out about the single guy you mentioned? I would like to know more.
Shirley
Monday, July 26, 2010
Saturday, July 24, 2010
I Hate the Touch Screen Phones
Two reasons:
First, on my Mexican dinner date a guy called and I tried to silence the phone and accidentally answered then had to hang up - 'cuz I'm on a date. Can't be talking to some other guy while on a date. That's just tacky.
Second, the Super Smart Teacher called me...he left a message that went something like this.
"Hey thank you for talking to me the other night. If you can't find anything for me that I would fit into it's okay. I'm a tough kid to find things for - I don't fit in anywhere. It's been like that my whole life. Don't make it your top priority. I know you have a life. If you ever want to talk call me, whenever. Or whatever, I don't really care. I know you're probably busy. I forget that. I'm a teacher and have four months off. When I'm off I'm think gee what am I going to do, I need someone to talk to. When I'm working I'm just REALLY busy. Well call me. If you don't find something it doesn't really matter. I don't really care."
Here comes the reason I hate the touch screen phone I have. I was trying to play the message for Laverne, but accidentally called the Super Smart Teacher instead. I had to hurry and hang up. He promptly called me back. Ahh!
I really wish I could describe his voice over the phone. It's a bit whiny, but boy whiny. Not that high pitched squeaky whine, just a boy sort of like Kip from Napoleon Dynamite when he's talking about Lafawnduh and chatting with babes online.
Honestly, I need to meet this guy so I can have a face to put with all this fun. I have decided to call him back later and tell him about the firesides and activities we have coming up. I'm thinking it's going to be a real treat meeting a 54 but I look 32, work out a lot and I am insanely brilliant single male who, did I mention, has NEVER been married. It's a real quandary how he has been single for so long.
Shirley
First, on my Mexican dinner date a guy called and I tried to silence the phone and accidentally answered then had to hang up - 'cuz I'm on a date. Can't be talking to some other guy while on a date. That's just tacky.
Second, the Super Smart Teacher called me...he left a message that went something like this.
"Hey thank you for talking to me the other night. If you can't find anything for me that I would fit into it's okay. I'm a tough kid to find things for - I don't fit in anywhere. It's been like that my whole life. Don't make it your top priority. I know you have a life. If you ever want to talk call me, whenever. Or whatever, I don't really care. I know you're probably busy. I forget that. I'm a teacher and have four months off. When I'm off I'm think gee what am I going to do, I need someone to talk to. When I'm working I'm just REALLY busy. Well call me. If you don't find something it doesn't really matter. I don't really care."
Here comes the reason I hate the touch screen phone I have. I was trying to play the message for Laverne, but accidentally called the Super Smart Teacher instead. I had to hurry and hang up. He promptly called me back. Ahh!
I really wish I could describe his voice over the phone. It's a bit whiny, but boy whiny. Not that high pitched squeaky whine, just a boy sort of like Kip from Napoleon Dynamite when he's talking about Lafawnduh and chatting with babes online.
Honestly, I need to meet this guy so I can have a face to put with all this fun. I have decided to call him back later and tell him about the firesides and activities we have coming up. I'm thinking it's going to be a real treat meeting a 54 but I look 32, work out a lot and I am insanely brilliant single male who, did I mention, has NEVER been married. It's a real quandary how he has been single for so long.
Shirley
Friday, July 23, 2010
Arriba! Vamonos...
Hola! My date took me for Mexican so I'm feeling a little spicy. My favorite response when telling friends where he took me was: "Is that place still in business?" Laverne being Laverne said, "Sick. That is one of the worst mexi places." Feel free to laugh now. I certainly did.
The date was with a super nice guy. He is the cousin of a friend. He was hilarious and easy to talk to and thankfully taller than me (without his heels on). Here is the sad part - using Laverne's kissable test - he wasn't. It's not like he was unattractive or odoriferous (well maybe a little bit, but I only noticed when he gave me a hug at the end of the date). He wasn't bad looking, he was funny, made me laugh and he seemed really nice. There was zero chemistry.
I realize that it's not ALL about the chemistry, but it is nice to have a little in the beginning and hope it takes off from there. We had none. Zip. Nada. Zilch.
So I've been on three dates in the space of one week with no luck. Do you now throw in the towel or keep on looking? One good friend said - you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince. Which, hey, I like kissing as much as you do. But shouldn't you want to kiss the frog to begin with? It shouldn't feel like actually kissing a frog, right? I mean who REALLY wants to kiss a frog? I know I don't.
Shirley
The date was with a super nice guy. He is the cousin of a friend. He was hilarious and easy to talk to and thankfully taller than me (without his heels on). Here is the sad part - using Laverne's kissable test - he wasn't. It's not like he was unattractive or odoriferous (well maybe a little bit, but I only noticed when he gave me a hug at the end of the date). He wasn't bad looking, he was funny, made me laugh and he seemed really nice. There was zero chemistry.
I realize that it's not ALL about the chemistry, but it is nice to have a little in the beginning and hope it takes off from there. We had none. Zip. Nada. Zilch.
So I've been on three dates in the space of one week with no luck. Do you now throw in the towel or keep on looking? One good friend said - you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince. Which, hey, I like kissing as much as you do. But shouldn't you want to kiss the frog to begin with? It shouldn't feel like actually kissing a frog, right? I mean who REALLY wants to kiss a frog? I know I don't.
Shirley
Thursday, July 22, 2010
I'm so SMART said the man on the phone
A quick update: My friend from church asked if she could give my number to her cousin. I thought - why not? He called and was super funny on the phone. He has the kind of humor that reminds me of Laverne and I love Laverne's humor. He asked me out for today so I should have another post up tomorrow.
Getting to the title and point of this post. Last night Laverne, Rick and I were out and I received an unknown call. The guy left a message that I really wish I could post here. It was something spectacular. I called him back and here's a brief summary of the interesting call.
Shirley: Hello? Hi this is Shirley returning your phone call.
Guy: Hi. A friend gave me your number from the Stake and said that you know what is going on for activities. He seemed to think that you could help me so I don't go to activities that I'm not really interested in.
S: Oh, yes. I can help you with that. What kinds of activities have you gone to? Mid singles or single adult?
G: I gone to both, but due to my age, I'm 54 but I look 32. I really take care of myself. I work out all the time. Most of the midsingles don't want to talk to me after they find out how old I am and the single adult activities consist of people in their 70s or 80s. I just don't fit in anywhere.
S: I see, well, there are activities that I know of that I can send to you. Are you on facebook? Do you have an email where I can send some information? (I sound like a telemarketer)
G: I do have internet, but at my work. I am a teacher. I only work eight months out of the year, but get paid for 12. (Yes. He really did say that). I think it is a waste of money to have internet at home when I have it at work. It would be really inconvenient for me to get emails because I would have to go to the library or figure something else out.
S: Oh. You're a teacher, that's great.
G: Yes. I teach the gifted kids. You see, I am really smart. I took a test and scored higher than anyone in the state. Actually, I scored in the top percentile in the nation. I am really smart and I like to work out so I look really young. I keep myself in shape. I have a really hard time relating to stupid people and I've found that most people are stupid. (Yes. This is an exact quote.)
S: Oh. Ok. Well. I have a few firesides that are coming up that you might like.
G: Yes. I would be okay in a fireside type setting or a dance, but I don't want to go to any volleyball games or concerts. I don't like those types of social settings. I am really smart and like intellectual things and exercising rather than trying to get to know someone with 300 other people around. I just can't talk to stupid people. I don't really even know why I called you. My friend just thought it would be a good idea. He told me to so here I am calling you. I don't do very well in social settings. I live alone and I've never been married (how is this even possible you 32 year old looking, SUPER smart, well maintained man? Kind of hard to believe).
S: Let me look into some activities for you and I will get back to you. Okay.
G: That would be fine, you can call anytime. I have the summer off, but get paid for the whole year. I don't know what it is about this economy but people are either rich or poor. There just doesn't seem to be any middle class people anymore. I just went to my high school reunion and it was so nice to be with people my age. I investigated the social statistics for the birth rate the year I was born and found that there just wasn't a lot of people born the year I was. That's why it's so hard to meet people my own age.
S: Huh. Good to know.
G: Well yes. Call anytime. Did you know that I am smart and I would really like to talk to someone that is my intellectual equal. You know? (I may be slightly exaggerating this line, but it really is the only one.)
S: I will get back to you. Good-bye.
I can't count how many times he mentioned how smart he is, how he looks younger than he is, how he loathes stupid people and thinks that most people in this world are stupid (you offended yet?), how he gets paid for working for only eight months of the year. I really can't imagine why and how this man could still be single after 54 years of glorious living on this earth.
Welcome to my new life. Aren't you glad it's not yours?
Shirley
Getting to the title and point of this post. Last night Laverne, Rick and I were out and I received an unknown call. The guy left a message that I really wish I could post here. It was something spectacular. I called him back and here's a brief summary of the interesting call.
Shirley: Hello? Hi this is Shirley returning your phone call.
Guy: Hi. A friend gave me your number from the Stake and said that you know what is going on for activities. He seemed to think that you could help me so I don't go to activities that I'm not really interested in.
S: Oh, yes. I can help you with that. What kinds of activities have you gone to? Mid singles or single adult?
G: I gone to both, but due to my age, I'm 54 but I look 32. I really take care of myself. I work out all the time. Most of the midsingles don't want to talk to me after they find out how old I am and the single adult activities consist of people in their 70s or 80s. I just don't fit in anywhere.
S: I see, well, there are activities that I know of that I can send to you. Are you on facebook? Do you have an email where I can send some information? (I sound like a telemarketer)
G: I do have internet, but at my work. I am a teacher. I only work eight months out of the year, but get paid for 12. (Yes. He really did say that). I think it is a waste of money to have internet at home when I have it at work. It would be really inconvenient for me to get emails because I would have to go to the library or figure something else out.
S: Oh. You're a teacher, that's great.
G: Yes. I teach the gifted kids. You see, I am really smart. I took a test and scored higher than anyone in the state. Actually, I scored in the top percentile in the nation. I am really smart and I like to work out so I look really young. I keep myself in shape. I have a really hard time relating to stupid people and I've found that most people are stupid. (Yes. This is an exact quote.)
S: Oh. Ok. Well. I have a few firesides that are coming up that you might like.
G: Yes. I would be okay in a fireside type setting or a dance, but I don't want to go to any volleyball games or concerts. I don't like those types of social settings. I am really smart and like intellectual things and exercising rather than trying to get to know someone with 300 other people around. I just can't talk to stupid people. I don't really even know why I called you. My friend just thought it would be a good idea. He told me to so here I am calling you. I don't do very well in social settings. I live alone and I've never been married (how is this even possible you 32 year old looking, SUPER smart, well maintained man? Kind of hard to believe).
S: Let me look into some activities for you and I will get back to you. Okay.
G: That would be fine, you can call anytime. I have the summer off, but get paid for the whole year. I don't know what it is about this economy but people are either rich or poor. There just doesn't seem to be any middle class people anymore. I just went to my high school reunion and it was so nice to be with people my age. I investigated the social statistics for the birth rate the year I was born and found that there just wasn't a lot of people born the year I was. That's why it's so hard to meet people my own age.
S: Huh. Good to know.
G: Well yes. Call anytime. Did you know that I am smart and I would really like to talk to someone that is my intellectual equal. You know? (I may be slightly exaggerating this line, but it really is the only one.)
S: I will get back to you. Good-bye.
I can't count how many times he mentioned how smart he is, how he looks younger than he is, how he loathes stupid people and thinks that most people in this world are stupid (you offended yet?), how he gets paid for working for only eight months of the year. I really can't imagine why and how this man could still be single after 54 years of glorious living on this earth.
Welcome to my new life. Aren't you glad it's not yours?
Shirley
Saturday, July 17, 2010
A Hobbit, Yogurt, A Piano and A Lie
Two dates in one night...sounds like it could be interesting and possibly even fun? Oh no, think again. It's fun to write about and read about, just not fun to experience.
My first date...hmmm...the good news is I got to have frozen yogurt. And to be honest he was nice. He memorizes personality tests because he said sometimes it's hard to keep the conversation going. The problem? His online profile said he was 5' 8". I am a solid 5'5". I did have my two inch heels on, but so did he, and I was still five inches taller than he was. As we were leaving he climbed up into his truck to drive away. His truck wasn't a truck that has lifts. Just a regular truck . I wanted to ask if he needed a boost. Thankfully it was only an hour of my life.
Never fear...on to the next date. The good news here? I got to go to a concert of a musician that I really do like. Since it was a concert you can't really talk during and I hid out in the bathroom during the intermission. Actually I hid in a stall and sent text messages to my friends. I actually sent a message to Laverne to ask her to save me. Which she did!
Date 2: online profile says he is 40. He looked older. He asked me to tell him something exciting. What? Like what? You know something that you find exciting? This question could have been fine coming from someone else, but I got a serious unsavory vibe from him. I have no idea where this conversation is going so I change the subject and ask about his family. He has four kids. When he asks about what I do for fun. I tell him I like to do things with my friends. I am told that he doesn't really have any friends. "My ex kept them all - now I don't get to do things with them". I don't want to know why he got divorced. He made some strange comments about money and then was asking super personal questions that made me uncomfortable - which is why I ended up in the bathroom sending text messages to Laverne begging her to get me out of this date. That's where the lie came in. I don't condone lying, but in this case, I feel it was necessary. I left in a hurry and thankfully without having to make physical contact with Date #2.
What am I learning from all of this? At first I admit I was depressed and a little dismayed at the state of my dating life. While I was driving in my car I started listening to a past conference talk of Elder Uchtdorf when he discussed having Hope. Last night I felt pretty hopeless, but today I am feeling a bit better. At first I wanted to crawl into bed and never come out. However, I think I may have a few possible fun dates lined up and I am still trying to get out and meet new people. My expectations remain low...but are filled with HOPE!
Shirley
My first date...hmmm...the good news is I got to have frozen yogurt. And to be honest he was nice. He memorizes personality tests because he said sometimes it's hard to keep the conversation going. The problem? His online profile said he was 5' 8". I am a solid 5'5". I did have my two inch heels on, but so did he, and I was still five inches taller than he was. As we were leaving he climbed up into his truck to drive away. His truck wasn't a truck that has lifts. Just a regular truck . I wanted to ask if he needed a boost. Thankfully it was only an hour of my life.
Never fear...on to the next date. The good news here? I got to go to a concert of a musician that I really do like. Since it was a concert you can't really talk during and I hid out in the bathroom during the intermission. Actually I hid in a stall and sent text messages to my friends. I actually sent a message to Laverne to ask her to save me. Which she did!
Date 2: online profile says he is 40. He looked older. He asked me to tell him something exciting. What? Like what? You know something that you find exciting? This question could have been fine coming from someone else, but I got a serious unsavory vibe from him. I have no idea where this conversation is going so I change the subject and ask about his family. He has four kids. When he asks about what I do for fun. I tell him I like to do things with my friends. I am told that he doesn't really have any friends. "My ex kept them all - now I don't get to do things with them". I don't want to know why he got divorced. He made some strange comments about money and then was asking super personal questions that made me uncomfortable - which is why I ended up in the bathroom sending text messages to Laverne begging her to get me out of this date. That's where the lie came in. I don't condone lying, but in this case, I feel it was necessary. I left in a hurry and thankfully without having to make physical contact with Date #2.
What am I learning from all of this? At first I admit I was depressed and a little dismayed at the state of my dating life. While I was driving in my car I started listening to a past conference talk of Elder Uchtdorf when he discussed having Hope. Last night I felt pretty hopeless, but today I am feeling a bit better. At first I wanted to crawl into bed and never come out. However, I think I may have a few possible fun dates lined up and I am still trying to get out and meet new people. My expectations remain low...but are filled with HOPE!
Shirley
Tuesday, July 13, 2010
Something to Smile About...
I have issues. Let's just get that out there. I should have said that from the beginning. Not serious issues, just silly, why do I respond that way issues.
The online dating thing is actually going better than expected. The few guys that I have been communicating with seem really nice. I haven't talked to any of them yet. Really, I can't say that I know any of them really well, but I am remaining hopeful that they are nice.
There are officially five different guys that seem interesting to me and one guy that a friend of mine is trying to set me up with. The one guy that lives out of state may progress to phone calls. He asked me to call him, but I have a hard time doing this. If he had called me first then maybe. I sent him my number and told him to call me, to which he responded, when I get the courage up. Maybe we'll start with a text message. Two ways to look at this. First, guys are just as scared as we are. Second, seriously? Be a man and step up.
The next guy asked me to join him for ice cream. I couldn't on the day specified so we are trying to coordinate schedules. I am hoping for frozen yogurt though.
Another guy just sent me a really funny message and I couldn't help but respond. He countered with another funny message and today asked me to text him. I guess this is how it goes. Email, text message, phone call, meet face to face? I don't know about this. Dating was way less complicated when I was younger. You called on a phone that was connected to the wall at your house, hoping that they had call waiting and if they didn't you had to try again. Too many forms of communication now.
Henry II, yes he actually has the same name as the Henry I was dating. He sent me a message asking more about me and we just started communicating. He looks nice. He seems pretty easy going and he has been prompt in response to my emails.
Two 26 year olds have been trying to talk to me, I just can't take them seriously (so together I am counting them as one person).
The faceless, nameless guy that just sends flirts - got two more today. It is totally laughable. I mean seriously? I asked him to send a photo, he said no but that he is good looking. Which, if that were true why he doesn't just put up a photo. I feel like this is kind of fishy. Hopefully he isn't married or something like that.
I had a girls night out last week and tried to rally the girls there to set me up. One girl had a couple guys that are single, one being her brother, who is sort of dating someone. He is cute, but I told her that since he is dating someone I would pass. Well...today she sent me a message and said that she showed him my picture on facebook and he wants to take me on a date. This is flattering, but...right now my picture on facebook is my glamour shot. I have a feeling that he is going to be disappointed when he shows up. I don't really look like that. I call it my smoke and mirrors photo. We'll see how that goes.
This is definitely a different year so far and although I feel settled into this new life, it is still sad to me that this is my life. I'm trying everything to keep it interesting and to be adventurous. I want to remain open, positive and optimistic that it will all work out in the end. I'm keeping my fingers crossed, will you too, please?
Shirley
The online dating thing is actually going better than expected. The few guys that I have been communicating with seem really nice. I haven't talked to any of them yet. Really, I can't say that I know any of them really well, but I am remaining hopeful that they are nice.
There are officially five different guys that seem interesting to me and one guy that a friend of mine is trying to set me up with. The one guy that lives out of state may progress to phone calls. He asked me to call him, but I have a hard time doing this. If he had called me first then maybe. I sent him my number and told him to call me, to which he responded, when I get the courage up. Maybe we'll start with a text message. Two ways to look at this. First, guys are just as scared as we are. Second, seriously? Be a man and step up.
The next guy asked me to join him for ice cream. I couldn't on the day specified so we are trying to coordinate schedules. I am hoping for frozen yogurt though.
Another guy just sent me a really funny message and I couldn't help but respond. He countered with another funny message and today asked me to text him. I guess this is how it goes. Email, text message, phone call, meet face to face? I don't know about this. Dating was way less complicated when I was younger. You called on a phone that was connected to the wall at your house, hoping that they had call waiting and if they didn't you had to try again. Too many forms of communication now.
Henry II, yes he actually has the same name as the Henry I was dating. He sent me a message asking more about me and we just started communicating. He looks nice. He seems pretty easy going and he has been prompt in response to my emails.
Two 26 year olds have been trying to talk to me, I just can't take them seriously (so together I am counting them as one person).
The faceless, nameless guy that just sends flirts - got two more today. It is totally laughable. I mean seriously? I asked him to send a photo, he said no but that he is good looking. Which, if that were true why he doesn't just put up a photo. I feel like this is kind of fishy. Hopefully he isn't married or something like that.
I had a girls night out last week and tried to rally the girls there to set me up. One girl had a couple guys that are single, one being her brother, who is sort of dating someone. He is cute, but I told her that since he is dating someone I would pass. Well...today she sent me a message and said that she showed him my picture on facebook and he wants to take me on a date. This is flattering, but...right now my picture on facebook is my glamour shot. I have a feeling that he is going to be disappointed when he shows up. I don't really look like that. I call it my smoke and mirrors photo. We'll see how that goes.
This is definitely a different year so far and although I feel settled into this new life, it is still sad to me that this is my life. I'm trying everything to keep it interesting and to be adventurous. I want to remain open, positive and optimistic that it will all work out in the end. I'm keeping my fingers crossed, will you too, please?
Shirley
Friday, July 9, 2010
Best Personal Ads
I have been looking at online profiles and have come across a few of my favorites, I thought I would share them with you.
1. Just because I'm Asian doesn't mean my engrush sucks, it means I rock at math. Yes. He really did spell Engrush that way.
2. I'm doing my best to ensure that the mark I leave isn't a dent in my couch.
3. I'm seriously not hitting on you, why would I when I am so old and you are so young. But if it's not about looks then why should it be about age? Said the 59 yo man who wanted to take me to lunch or dinner or have me shoot him and collect on his estate. Yikes.
4. I am looking for someone who can debate the pros and cons of home teaching the Sasquatch.
5. I'm really good-rooking. Said the guy with no photo to back it up.
6. Nacho: My life is good - real good.
7. I'm a Ninja in training looking for a partner to spar with.
8. I don't want anyone with any mental issues: if you are bi-polar - do not contact me.
9. Nice and hot. Looking for a girl who is Hot and nice.
10. Just your average everyday Superhero, nothing special.
Oh, and so many more good ones. A few things I have learned. Someone needs to give guys a clue - don't post a picture of you in the bathroom using your phone to catch your reflection in the mirror. Don't post a fuzzy picture. Don't post a picture of yourself in your snuggie (yes, it's true). Please use an up to date photo. Don't use your glamour shot from the 80s with the disco lights and the horrible background. Don't post a picture of you with another girl (unless she's your mom - no wait, don't do that either).
I actually have been contacted by a few guys that seemed interesting enough to email back. So I have a tentative yogurt date with one and the other one lives in another state so we are moving up to actual phone calls. Two other guys just started sending messages and one guy (who doesn't have a picture) keeps sending me flirts - so to be funny and maybe a little obnoxious I keep sending him flirts back. We haven't actually typed any messages or had any other form of communication. My goal is to see how many we can send back and forth without using any real words. Call it a study in flirting. Something I need to get better at. Stayed tuned.
Shirley
1. Just because I'm Asian doesn't mean my engrush sucks, it means I rock at math. Yes. He really did spell Engrush that way.
2. I'm doing my best to ensure that the mark I leave isn't a dent in my couch.
3. I'm seriously not hitting on you, why would I when I am so old and you are so young. But if it's not about looks then why should it be about age? Said the 59 yo man who wanted to take me to lunch or dinner or have me shoot him and collect on his estate. Yikes.
4. I am looking for someone who can debate the pros and cons of home teaching the Sasquatch.
5. I'm really good-rooking. Said the guy with no photo to back it up.
6. Nacho: My life is good - real good.
7. I'm a Ninja in training looking for a partner to spar with.
8. I don't want anyone with any mental issues: if you are bi-polar - do not contact me.
9. Nice and hot. Looking for a girl who is Hot and nice.
10. Just your average everyday Superhero, nothing special.
Oh, and so many more good ones. A few things I have learned. Someone needs to give guys a clue - don't post a picture of you in the bathroom using your phone to catch your reflection in the mirror. Don't post a fuzzy picture. Don't post a picture of yourself in your snuggie (yes, it's true). Please use an up to date photo. Don't use your glamour shot from the 80s with the disco lights and the horrible background. Don't post a picture of you with another girl (unless she's your mom - no wait, don't do that either).
I actually have been contacted by a few guys that seemed interesting enough to email back. So I have a tentative yogurt date with one and the other one lives in another state so we are moving up to actual phone calls. Two other guys just started sending messages and one guy (who doesn't have a picture) keeps sending me flirts - so to be funny and maybe a little obnoxious I keep sending him flirts back. We haven't actually typed any messages or had any other form of communication. My goal is to see how many we can send back and forth without using any real words. Call it a study in flirting. Something I need to get better at. Stayed tuned.
Shirley
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